Most of us laugh at the Friends episode where no one can remember what Chandler Bing does for a living. (“Statistical analysis and data reconfiguration,” anyone?)
But it made me wonder: do your kids — or even their friends — know what you do?
This question hit me at a memorial for my best friend’s mom. We grew up a block apart, and I spent years in and out of their home. It wasn’t until the service that I learned she had been an astrophysicist, doing groundbreaking work. As kids, we rarely see the full professional lives of the adults around us.
The same is true today. Our children often don’t hear about the big challenges we’re working on, the impact we hope to make, or even the doubts we wrestle with in tough decisions. Yet these are powerful conversations to have across generations.
Kids — especially teens — are often more insightful and curious than we expect. They’re already forming their own ideas about the future of work and life. Inviting them into these conversations can spark curiosity, deepen understanding, and strengthen connections.
So let me ask you:
Do your kids’ friends know what you do?
Do your kids even know what you do?
Try starting that conversation. You might be surprised by what opens up.
P.S. My mom just retired at 83 after a long career as a therapist. Her working life has been a constant source of inspiration and has shaped how I show up for my coaching clients today.
